my my my that 'poem' is out of control.
I am one of those people who don't believe in the whole "bisexual, dl" trend. These are gay people who actually love to be 'manly' but like stick and balls. They would not be accepted by the black community, so therefore, as 'manly' as they appear and in many cases are, they are GAY!
This is some very deviant, selfish behavior. I personally want a man to be upfront, flame queen or not.
As unnacceptable as being gay is, I feel it is just a downright disservice to a woman for man to 'pretend' with her and 'be real' with him. If a man is saying "yeah, I might get down cause my girl ain't giving me the oral or sexual satisfaction like I need it" That means you like being with a man. I am sure any prostitute or groupie, could "give it to you like you need it" But NO you decided on a man.
I ran across a website called
www.ebonymale.com/connections/personalads.html , check it out, your friends, boyfriend, brothers, cousins, or assoicates may be on there. The bios are wild. Puts real faces to the DL craze. Saw a dude on there I KNOW who is apparently living a damn lie.