While some people might agree with that, I think it would greatly depend on how traditional Greek life is on that campus.

My chapter didn't have a house, but we were certainly active on campus and in the community. One of my pledge sisters was already married when we joined AGD. After initiation, not only was she one of the most positive active contributors to the chapter (she served as VP Recruitment for three semesters), her husband was very supportive of her and our chapter too!

She was an exceptional collegiate sister, and her marital status certainly didn't hinder her contributions to our Fraternity.

I say, if a married, full course load carrying PNM whose husband supports her 100%, wishes to join a sorority and knows that she might have to put in extra effort, she should at least be given the opportunity to be considered for invitation.