there are MANY reasons why i chose Sigma over the other organizations, all of the sororities do GREAT work in the community and stake claim to being a true sisterhood, so with those 2 out of the way, i'll give you my 2 deciding factors:
1. as a prospect, I was NEVER treated as an inferior being because i wasnt one of them, and it was never hinted that i needed to kiss @ss in order to get the CHANCE to become one. Each member I met respected and had love for me as a "sista" eventhough i was not their "soror."
2. sigma stood (and continues to stand) on her own two feet - her own merit. the sgrhos i met never tried to CONVINCE me that i should join them because of the way that i look, or by bad mouthing other sororities, or because of a fraternity, or status, or any other shallow reasonings. It was always about the business at hand and whether or not i was down.
i wish you the best of luck in your quest!!!
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