I know myself and I just could not deal with this (emotionally). I had a cousin once who dated a guy. They dated for about 5 years. After about a year after they broke up, another one of my cousins started dating him. Eventhough my cousin had moved on and was engaged to someone else, I still felt that my other cousin was bogus. That's just me. So, I think that true friends should respect each others feelings and not even go there. There are plenty of other men. I just don't understand women who can't understand that if he was ever my man, he is off limits and find somebody else. It just makes for a complicated situation. If nothing else, emotionally it would be hard. Especially if you really cared about this person. But, I guess it would take a self examination. If you are really cool with the situation and it doesn't bother you, then whatever is whatever. This is just how I feel about the situation.
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