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Originally posted by Chi_ZETABBW:
Sisterfriend: Maybe you were typing fast, but I barely understood your question.
No I was throwing out a lot of questions in general about baby daddies/relationships. Some of my friends are involved in the above situations...and I was just saying how my child's father and I are still close and people hate on that.
But if that "LOVE" you have for him, keeps you from loving another, or keeps getting in the way of you having a healthy relationship with another then you are setting yourself up for problems. I believe parents need a working relationship, but all this getting approval of a new mate from an "EX" is ridiculous. Alot of women use their kids to sabatoage any relationship the baby's daddy might have. They use their own children as pawns. I don't blame your friend from being upset to hear you say, "I'll always love my son's father." That was very disrespectful to say in front of him.
Just my 2 cents.[/B]
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[i]And Goodness no my love for him doesn't stand in the way of future relationships or did it degrade with past relationships. And the friend I was referring to was a friend..Nothing more nothing less. But he just gets pissed off.
And yes I will always love my child's father...because he gave me my child. What's that movie with George Clooney and Sharon Stone. The little boy asked his divorced mother did she still love his father...and she replied "yes because he gave me you." and that's how I feel about him.
It's just that I see so many people that have children but they hate that child's mother or father.