Sisterfriend: Maybe you were typing fast, but I barely understood your question. What I could make of it, is that you feel people are hating on you because of your "LOVE" for your childs father. Well I'm not hating on you, for the child's sake I think it's great that you two have remained friends and get along. But if that "LOVE" you have for him, keeps you from loving another, or keeps getting in the way of you having a healthy relationship with another then you are setting yourself up for problems. I believe parents need a working relationship, but all this getting approval of a new mate from an "EX" is ridiculous. Alot of women use their kids to sabatoage any relationship the baby's daddy might have. They use their own children as pawns. I don't blame your friend from being upset to hear you say, "I'll always love my son's father." That was very disrespectful to say in front of him.
Just my 2 cents.
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