I don't know. Maybe because I'm female, I have a different take on this.
If the mom chose a guy out of the bunch, without malice, truly thinking and/or hoping that he actually was the father, then the situation becomes too similar to a "switched at birth" thing. I mean the hospital gives you the baby, truly thinking and/or hoping it's yours.
My daughter is six and she is the joy of my heart, GOD is the only thing on earth that comes before her, and her well being.
If some well-meaning nurse showed up on my doorstep with another little girl, talking about "mistake", I promise on everything that the nurse is gonna get the GASFACE.
At this point, I don't really care if my daughter was switched at birth.... SHE IS MINE!!!!!! I'm not about to give her up because I didn't birth her. That's outlandish!!!
So the idea that a guy could go from having a baby being the center of his life to being like, "Oh well", just because he didn't "make" it,is hard for me to swallow.
However, one should keep in mind that I'm on my highhorse knowing that my daugher is biologically mine, and my husband knows that she's his, so maybe I'm jaded.
Miss. Mocha
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