[mulattogyrl]

I think Deltabrat made a good point that these DL men may just be homosexual but dating women because it is socially acceptable. What these men are doing is dispicable, but it just shows us how careful WE have to be with our bodies. Just because we fall in love and think the world of someone and want to give ourselves to them doesn't mean we're safe, and that's whether or not they're sleeping with men, women, whatever. And married women are in trouble too, not just us single ones. It's a sad thing. This epedemic has me looking at every man I deal with cross wise. My new year's resolution was actually to stop dating and dealing with men casually, and this was a big reason for my decision. I saw firsthand what AIDS does to a person, and while people are living a lot longer with it, it's still not something you want.

No matter if you're gay or straight, DO NOT put other people's lives at risk. More importantly, DO NOT PUT YOURSELF AT RISK.