[candygirl]

I watched the show last night and I was appalled, disgusted, repulsed and any other word that would describe the discontent I felt for J.L. King and the lifestyle of the men who indulge in this type of activity.

Its hard enough for an educated sista find a good man, but now we have to add another fault to the list. Who do we date? Do we even get married? Should we trust our men? I am truly disheartened by this whole situation.

Whats the point of asking someone whether or not they are sleeping with men? Do we really think they're going to tell us the truth? That would go against the whole idea of them being on the down low.

Although I want to know more information about Down Low men, I refuse to purchase J. L. Kings book. This man seems to have absolultely no regrets about his lifestyle nor his deceit. Unless the proceeds are going to be used for HIV/AIDS research or counseling for these repulsive, deceptive, and sneaky men, then I'm not going to support it. I will not put money in the pocket of any man who supports this activity. He may want to increase awareness but he wants, even more, to increase his own wealth.

We are truly coming to the end of our days. I just pray that I regain my trust and I also pray for discernment. I want to live eternity in heaven and my God knows that if I marry a man like this I'll end up in hell for slitting a negros throat for deceiving me.

As a disclaimer, I am not against homosexuality(although I do believe its a sin, but hey sin is sin). I am against men who have heterosexual relationships with women and deny or lie about their sexual relationships with men.