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Originally posted by MIDWESTDIVA:
LOL @ Original Ape. 
Of course I have my own thoughts about this situation. But I want to know what you would do if you found out that your child really isn't your child? What would you do if a woman from your past called you and told you that you are the father of a five year old? Feel free to email your response. 
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1) If I found out that the child I grew to love, financially supported for five years, wasn't mine; I probably would slowly reduce my time with the child-as well as my payments. I would do it gradually because it isn't the child's fault; and the child shouldn't have to suffer because of the gank shit of the mother.
2)If a woman suddenly contacted me and provided proof that I was the father of her five-year-old child, I would ask her about the men that the child grew attached to before she realized her error. If there were none, I would have her bring the child to a mall/park, and meet the child in my own cute way. After getting our schedules together, I would begin spending time with the child and providing financial support.
I am well aware of how delicate this situation is; and I would do my best to make our new life as best it can be.