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I didn't carefully read your first post, you want to know how to get power?
Ever hear that song by Expose . . I'll never get over you getting over me? Its kind of like that. People like to be liked, and they will often onvest more effort into keeping something whatever it is, then getting something new.
If you back off a little, not totally, you should be able to get him to chase you a bit. That will give you some space and power.
I am still not clear on what you want. When I read your post I think that you really like this guy, but that you don't think he wants anything really serious from you and/or you are going to be moving anyway so don't want to commit.
But emotionally, it sounds like that all else being equal you would normally want this guy for a serious BF. The reason i say this is that most people don't put a lot of effort into their booty calls.
So it sounds like a lot of the conflict is on your side, you are torn between really wanting him and not thinking you could/should have him.
I could be reading this way wrong because there isn't much information here . . .
This is what I would say: Two months is a long time. In two months we could all die, the world could end, or the horse could learn how to sing. . ..
Get the most out of the relationship. Don't deny yourself a great experience now because you are afraid of the pain of seperation. Act as if you are not leaving. Also, you don't have to pressure him into committment or whatever, that become obvious after a while. If you both see each other all the time and have a great time, you don't need to speak the words.
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