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Originally posted by TRSimon
It is hard enough to balance sorority membership with motherhood when a woman has her child AFTER she joins. Doing it while one completes the membership process is way too stressful, (in addition to school and/or work) to be a worthwhile endeavor. I would be inclined to encourage a woman to seek membership after she has adjusted to motherhood.
While being part of a sorority would mean that the woman would have an additional support system in place, it is more important for a future mother to minimize stress.
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And even with "support systems" in place, it is still just too hard. I have had to step back some this year because it was all too much. I know that this is not a single dad/single mom debate issue going on here but there is a big difference.