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Originally posted by Senusret I
I have an Alpha Phi Omega/Alpha Phi Alpha frat (we are both in Both, he pledged APO after me, I joined Alpha after him) who was a teenaged father...I guess his son is in the first grade now. I was surprised, but I love him just the same. I think he is a good role model to his son. Also, I think there was a very positive vibe passed on by having his toddler at the school on some weekends. Like, that's where daddy gets his education on...ya know?
My point....as long as you takin' care of bidness as a FATHER FIRST...be you an aspirant or Frat, then you are okay in my book.
Deadbeat dads get no vote from me.
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While it's great that your frat was able to be a father first, there is a HUGE difference between being an expectant mother and an expectant father. Being pregnant is stressful enough without having to worry about joining an organization. I've seen single mothers go through their process, and it was HARD. But, I would be inclined to tell a pregnant woman it just wasn't her time.