Midwestdiva:
I'm with you! I am 24 and never cheated on my man.... If I'm not happy, I'll just leave. I wont stay and cheat, whats the point?
But back to the question though, I once dated someone who had a girl. I knew it was wrong (cause I would not want a woman seeing my man and she KNEW about me) but my mentality at the time was "I dont have any loyalties to her, so if he doesnt care then why should I?"
Now that I have a few more years behind me and know what I really want out of a relationship, I wouldnt do it again. If your male friend is thinking about breaking up with his girl THEN HE NEEDS DO IT!!! And no matter how we try to justify it (what if we we're friends first... what if he's THINKING of breaking up with her...), cheating is wrong. It's damaging to all parties involved. Finish the last chapter completely before moving on to then next book.....
And would I take a man back that's cheated on me......HELL NO! Sorry, but I love myself toooo much (and there are too many GOOD MEN out there) to put up with anyone's crap, emotional abuse, or what-have-you - not to mention possibly catching diseases...
That's just my personal opinion.
[This message has been edited by prettypoodle6 (edited December 07, 2000).]
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