Ok, Imight make a few enemies here, but I have a good/best friend who is a man and is now my boyfriend.
A year ago he ahd a girlfriend and I had a boyfriend, we were really both at "the end" of those relationships and one day we just became more than just friend-friends. I did not andhe did not sit out to make this hapopen. i didd not and he did not say I'm going to try to get with her/him even thought I know they got someone. It really just happened because we were already such great friends. We did not continue to cheat on our mates, however, we did end those relationships and I think that is most important, because you do not need to pull yourslef in two directions with two didffernet people you can not love two people, the same way you can not have two gods because you will ove one and hate thre other.
But to get back to your question, if you are going to pursue a relationship then pursue, but do not let him have two relationships....and I don't want it to seem like I'nm saying go say"it's me or here" but if you are truly friends then discuss what happened and see what you want to happen and go from there, but a desicion has to be made. And if he wants her, then don't go after him becaus that is completely differentand that's chasing another womens man.
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