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Originally posted by #1 Leading Lady
Do you tell your mate everything and everything truthful????
The topic came about with me and my LS concerning 2 questions regarding how much to do you really tell your mate and how truthful you are.
Question 1: Do you have a separate checking/savings account only in your name? If yes, does your mate know of this account and the balance?
Question 2: When your mate ask you how many sexual partners have you been with, do you give him the real number?
My answer for Question 1:
I was brought up with the values that a woman should always keep a secret acccount separate from her mate just in case that fool starting acting crazy you can handle your own business and just for a security cushion for yourself. So yes, I have one and no Mr. #1LL doesn't know.
My Answer for Question #2: NEVER EVA EVA EVA reveal the correct # because men like to use that # against you. My reply to How many sexual partners I have been with is a simple " Baby, all you need to know is I have been with you" I have seen my family and friends tell the real # and soon as an argument breaks out she is a "garden tool", "street walker" you get the picture every name but the one that her momma gave her.
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1. I have a separate checking account and savings in my name that I have since I was in high school. However my husband does know about it and he really doesn't mind. But when funds our low far as bill payments, then he expects me to "dip" in those funds. So he doens't know how much money I REALLY have in that account, cause all my statements are online.
2. Yes I gave my spouse the real answer, because my total was not that much compared to his. So even if we do get into an argument he cant use that against me.