[ladylike]

In this scenario (internet cheating) I would want to know because a mental connection/affair can be more damaging to a relationship than a physical/connection affair. When feelings and emotions get involved (as it will when an emotional connection is established) it becomes easy to confuse emotional attraction with physical attraction. Once a person attracts your mind attracting the body is soon to follow.

And when it comes to physical acts of cheating I WANT TO KNOW because you are placing my health and physical well-being in danger. I need to know this so I (and my SO) can go get tested.