[Diva06Sweet]

Originally posted by jubilance1922
Diva, you seem a bit hostile, like you need to defend yourself. No one is attacking you. If you are proud of what you did, then be proud. One of my prophytes was a Kappa Sweetheart. Even though I don't agree with them, does that make me love her any less? No!

I think the question is this: why do you need to "help" these men? Why can't they do that themselves, I mean, isn't that what brotherhood is for? Why do you need to follow behind men to do service?

And please don't get defensive, just help me to understand your point of view.

I am not hostile i know TheEpitome1920 personally...
and we have talked about sweethearts before.

We didnt follow around behind the brothers, we generally helped them with things they really could not do... did we clean the frat house.. no not even... but we did help set up for parties, or would sell refreshements at the parties.
And the way that my campus worked being a sweet of the alphas was one of the best ways to get picked up for Delta... the AKA's hated us...
like i said before each yard is different, each org is different and each chapter is different....
my bf is a zeta knight... not sure what they did for the zetas though