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Originally posted by Diva06Sweet
oh lawd we have had this discussion...
it varies from chapter to chapter...
we helped the bruhs with parties, clean up, etc
we also had service hour requirment to stay active....
but that is what we did at our chapter
dont hate....
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Diva, you seem a bit hostile, like you need to defend yourself. No one is attacking you. If you are proud of what you did, then be proud. One of my prophytes was a Kappa Sweetheart. Even though I don't agree with them, does that make me love her any less? No!
I think the question is this: why do you need to "help" these men? Why can't they do that themselves, I mean, isn't that what brotherhood is for? Why do you need to follow behind men to do service?
And please don't get defensive, just help me to understand your point of view.