I've noticed that this is still going on and I've also experienced the flip side of the ordeal with my beautiful sisters saying that they wouldn't date a guy lighter than they were because he would be too conceited. Looks and wether someone is darker or lighter goes with a person who want's to be in control of things and that my friends is a truly sad person. I don't judge anyone, because if I am being treated right then I am happy. I've heard of people only wanting to date those who they felt didn't look as good as them. It's a control factor. People who don't have control of their lives want to try and control everything else. It's sad but it will continue to go on unless you take a stand. Whenever someone says something that you don't agree with, even if it is supposed to be a joke, don't stand for it and let your position be known.
Delight
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