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Well in this case . . leading someone on is maintaining contact with him after you have decided that you don't like him without saying you just want to be friends or want nothing to do with him.
Men are not mind readers anymore than girls are . . despite what alikat2 says about him being psycho . . . its not unreasonable for him to feel lead on. Although, he didn't how much diginity in allowing himself to get all upset at you.
Scenario: I go out with a girl on a date twice. Maybe over two different weekends. She is really into me I am less into her. I decide mentally I don't want to see her again. Over the next week or so I stop calling her or maybe I only call her back, and am evasive about wanting to go out. I am busy, plans, hair etc, maybe some other time.
She still likes me so she "hears" that I am busy now, but maybe won't be busy later. She is picking up on the mixed signals, but I keep making excuses that are plausible, and I am still talking to her, and its only been a week or so . . . . she has little reason to suspect that I just don't like her because I am . . drum roll please, I ams till talking to her and not tellin gher anything.
Basically I am treating her like a mushroom, keeping her in the dark and feeding her shit.
Then finally a week or two later, I have enough, screw up my courage and say: I don't have time for a committed relationship blah blah blah . . she is so wonderful blah blah blah. Blowing smoke up her ass.
She is going to be pissed because I could have just told her what was up after the second date. Keep in mind that once we start crushing on someone that crush grows quickly. So I just basically led her on to believe there was the possibility of more, so that she started liking me more.
So yeah, she is going to be pissed.
And yeah, in your case, he is going to be pissed. Although again, is shows a lack of self respect on his part to show that he is visibly upset to the girl that played him.
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