Hi, once again I am new to the board, but I would like to post my opinion. Stuff like this happens all the time, and i have to question just like you was it really in her heart or did she just want to be apart of something. I had no intention of joining any sorority when I came to college. Then I met an SGRho and she introduced me to an organization full of love and sisterhood. I wanted to be an SGRho every since I was a freshmen, and I recently got my letters in the fall of 1999. I love my letters and I wore them proudly. SGRho was my first love and I wouldn't take nothing for it. My opinion is, if you want to join a sorority do it because your heart says so, not because you just want to be apart of something. When you get those letters that means you were willing to dedicate your life to that organization. So to answer your question what would I do in a situation like that, she would have to explain to me why she decided not to be an AKA anymore, why SGRho. Because I don't want anyone in my organization that doesn't have it in their heart cause they miss the whole point.
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