Soror RHOyal Silence,
I think this is an interesting question. It sounds like the young lady you are talking about had absolutely NO org in her heart. She just wanted to be down with SOMEONE, ANYONE. That angers me for several reasons. It says that she doesnt value BGLO's and all we stand for very much.
I'd have to ask a person like that, why she wanted to join AKA. Then I'd ask her what changed her mind to SGRho. Then I'd ask if she wasnt sure when she went on for AKA how could I know that she's sure about SGRho. I think that during interview time we have a right to ask these questions. They aren't threatening questions. And out of respect for our org, and whatever org she pledged before, they NEED to be asked. If the girl seems sincere in her answers, I'd still wait to "put her down". You know that sometimes studnets (esp. those who transfer), only have about a semester to get to know the members of the org, and vice versa. There's no harm in waiting to get to know her better and in effect, know her heart beter. SGRho doesn't have to be your FIRST love. (Many people grow up with the Greek influence in their home. ANd after swearing up and down they want to be an "XYZ"m they get to college and see all there is to offer with the other orgs. They shouldnt be penalized for this.) But it does have to be your TRUE and FINAL love. Sometimes it takes people a while to see the LIGHT. And just because of that, it doesnt mean that they don't deserve to be called soror. It'd be nice if she had seen the LIGHT Earlier. But what's important is that she SEES it.
PEACE
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