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Old 04-09-2004, 05:06 PM
1savvydiva 1savvydiva is offline
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Re: Relationship Ratio

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Originally posted by laidbackfella

Integrity (Loyal/Trustworthy/Dependability/Honesty)
Moral Turpitude (Respect/Values)
Intelligence (Common Sense)
Formal Education (Book Sense)
Spiritual (Actively believes and practices faith)
Sense of Family (Closeness to Family)
Sense of Humor
Grooming (Hygiene)
Sense of Fashion (Style of Dress)
Physical Appearance (Looks)
Appreciation of Music/Art
Sense of Purpose (Direction in Life)
Communication Skills
General Personality (Attitude)
Personal Stability (Mental and Emotional)
Sexual Prowess
Social Skills (Able to deal with friends)
Nurturing (Being Supportive/Affectionate)
Financial
Adventuresome (Willing to try new things)
Community Awareness (Current Event/Involvement in Politics/Community Service)

Physical Appearance-35% (I have to like what I'm looking at)
Sprirituality-20% (I believe that this would encompass integrity, because if he is actively and truely pursuing his faith, he will strive to live and do right.)
Intelligence-15% (Not necessarily formal education, but I guess I would characterize this as a yearn to learn about different things. Also, hopefully...if you are intelligent, you can formulate your thoughts well enough to be a good conversationalist.)
Personal Stability-10& (This is very important, I have really had some crazies)
Sexual Prowess-5% (Who said this was only important to men?)
Sense of Humor-5% ( I like to laugh, my potential mate would have to factor into this somehow)

I'm going to add one on the list that's not there:
Motivation and Drive- 10%- I can't stand a man who is content with their mediocre surroundings and have no motivation to change their situation. A man with a purpose and and a focus to know what he wants and a plan to get it, is one of the sexiest non-physical traits I can think of.
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