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I'm confused....
In your first post you said she had been initiated into one chapter, then initiated into yours (as a NM sister).
Your post above mentioned that she's not around anymore. Does this mean that she's no longer a sister (been excused, disaffiliated, kicked out, whatever you call it)?
If her membership has been terminated, then I can understand why your chapter sisters are telling you to stay quiet. First of all, it's not something anyone else should discuss with you EXCEPT for the person who was terminated (confidentiality and all that). Secondly, depending on the situation, you may not want the whole campus to know about it. Things can happen quickly at large schools like U of A, and it's always best to keep chapter operations "under your hat".
In any case, you've learned a valuable lesson in all of this....if you have doubts, check it out! Don't always assume that it's someone else's responsibility. Either work with that person (or entity, like CPH) until you get the information you need, or get the information yourself.
...and GO HOGS!
PsychTau
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