Actually is is a matter of like. No matter how much we profess we aren't ready for a relationship . . it only means that we are unready for you. The next person we meet aa day later we might be ready for . .. why? Because we like her more.
Shrug . . . look at all the stories of the man that claims not to be ready for marriage, the couple break-up, and he is married 3 months later. Its more about the person than the situation.
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Originally posted by OtterXO
NOOOOOO...you are thinking yourself into a hole! Obviously this guy liked you and wanted to date you, why would you think anything else!? Some people just aren't ready mentally, emotionally, etc. to be in a relationship at the time. I've been through this also with an ex and I've realized that if you spend all this energy on figuring out whether the person actually loved you/wanted to be with you, then you are missing the point! Just learn from the situation! I know it's hard not to second guess everything about a relationship, but it's not going to do you any good! Just try to get out, hang out with friends and concentrate on being you!
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