Quote:
Originally posted by delph998
Preach Laidbackfella!!!! What you said IS very true.
HOWEVER, there are MARRIED women who are getting infected with HIV/AIDS. I'm sorry, but I'm not trying to "protect" myself when I'm married. It's not suppose to go down that way. With the exception of getting tested constantly (even though I shouldn't have to do that either if I'm married) what else do you all suggest?
|
Getting tested constantly is not the solution either, if you are going to keep doing the same risky behavior. All the test will do is tell you when you have run out of luck. Very honestly, if you don't know your man well enough to be absolutely sure about him, then you probaly don't need to marry him, much less have unprotected sex with him.
Before starting an intimate relationship with a man, the two of you should go TOGETHER and get tested, then share the results with each other. But you should still use condoms. Then if it gets to the point of marriage, take another test TOGETHER right before the wedding. After that you gotta have trust. BUT if at anytime things seem fishy--get those condoms back out and then take another test.
It's sad it has come down to this, but better safe than sorry.