[nikki1920]

A Soror gave a WONDERFUL presentation re: DL men. She said that the numbers reported may actually be higher b/c a lot of Black and Latino men don't classify themselves as gay (think stereotypical "gay" behavior, ie, Antoine and Blaine from In Living Color), but have sex with men. To them there is a difference, especially if a man is the "reciever", so to speak.

I just think that women need to be as communicative as possible and to PROTECT themselves. Yeah, dingle is good, but aint no dingle good enough for me to risk my life/health b/c dude can't/won't/doesn't want to be honest with me.

Regardless of HOW HIV/AIDS is transmitted, it IS spreading. EDUCATION and TESTING (Can't stress that enough) are the best weapons we have to protect ourselves. IMO

ETA:
@ strangefruit:
there is a different language w/ in the gay and bisexual communities re: sexual behavior. MSM may have been assaulted in jail or what-have-you, but see themselves as heterosexual males. Its all in the terminology apparently.

and lol at the credit score question....