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Originally posted by Betarulz!
As groups that are selective in offers of membership, it seems perfectly acceptable that we can choose who is and isn't, what is and isn't, representative of our organization.
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Unfortunately not all of us are given this opportunity! Even though we are not allowed to be selective, our chapter gets along great... though there's always a couple weird ones that slip in!
One of our last pledge classes included one girl who obviously had no problem with, um, showing what her mama gave her. Every pledge meeting she came dressed in either short skirts, middrift shirts, vinyl, tall leather boots.... or all at the same time! *sigh* Needless to say we were a little shocked. The breaking point was really when she went to a fraternity's philanthropy project dressed in a bikini (maybe I should mention that this was a 24-hour bonfire event... in February... in Maine.) She wasn't with any of us, but we got to hear from some of the brothers that she was telling everyone she was a sister of ours (this was about 2-3 weeks into their pledge semester). And the word started getting out around our small campus about this little incident... Well. After that, we decided we really needed to have a chat with her. Our Exec board was able to sit her down privately and tell her our concerns, and how we were worried that she was not going to be able to represent us in a desirable manner. She apologized to the sisterhood, and a week later decided to depledge. As sad as it is to lose a potential member, I really think this was for the best! That pledge class ended up becoming a very strong group after all this. And it definitely got us sisters working on a Code of Conduct!