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The "I need it because I'm a guy and guys need it" is the LAMEST excuse ever and if you seriously tried to pull that on me I'd be out the door. And I think most self-respecting girls would. Believe it or not, there are a multitude of reasons why women (or men) stop having sex with their significant others and if you drop the relationship simply because of that you are a tool. (Assuming, of course, that it was not simply a relationship based on sex, in which case, whatever.)
That said, you need to keep in mind that there are a lot of people out there who will not stay in a relationship if there is an extended period of no sex (although depending on the person "extended period" could mean two weeks or two years) and that whenever you stop having sex you are taking that risk -- and that risk becomes exponentially higher when you are already having lots of problems in the relationship and then decide to cut off sex. At that point, what benefit is there to either of you to stay in the relationship besides the security of being in one? I know it's rough for a relationship to end, but it sounds like both of you will ultimately be better off.
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