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I have a friend who waited....she was going on 27 when she got married and he was almost 30. But they were BOTH virgins. I don't understand the girls who "save themselves" for some guy who has already gone and done it before. If I had never been with anyone else I wouldn't be able to stand thinking about the ones who had gone before me.
It's an immesely personal decision. For some people, waiting really is important and not waiting would just ruin everything (cause feelings of guilt, or whatever.) For others, waiting is not an option. I could never have married a man I hadn't slept with and known if "it" was there or not.
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