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In the meantime is it ok if he just plays the field and samples the grass ? They were nice sentiments

Originally posted by justamom
My dear, sweet Arya
Because you are YOU, I wanted to take the time to say something
that may impress you!

All of this is based on the way you have presented yourself and exchanges we have had.

I can honestly say-We would have been close friends had we met at the college level. Your astuteness amazes me, you humor delights me and your life views are/were similar to mine. You are a rare breed.

You are just now coming into the time when you are ready to meet someone compatible. Sooner may have placed you in a position of "authority" which is NOT something to build a relationship upon. Now is the "age" of finding someone who can be considered an equal. You NEED an equal. Do not spend your time with women whose mental agility is less than your own.
(I believe you understand this.) If you now open yourself-expose yourself-to educated women and perhaps accept a few flaws-as we ALL have flaws-you will find your mate...l You know where you WON'T find them. Look to places that interest you. She's there. Just waiting to find someone who SHE cannot dominate. I promise you this is true...or, I could just be full of @&#%. BUT, I'm USUALLY right!