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Originally posted by James
I think you are brain damaged.  I mean that respectfully and affectionately because I am sure you are a wonderful person and all . . . but Damn you girls get the wierdest notions!
Lets see, one of the major reasons we enter committed adult relationships is easy no stress access to the goodies. Thats not a perk, thats like part of the whole job description.
I like that, the guy should respect and support your decision . . . to . . . remove one of the major points of even being in a relationship. Uhm . . No.
If you want to stop having sex, you are basically saying that its ok for us to have sex with other people . . . . then we can provide you the emotional support that you want, while still getting the lovin' we need 
Nice post OTW, keeping it real.
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Yeah James, and you know that first post you had above was I think the 2nd time I actually agreed with you.
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Originally posted by smiley21
i am so confused. cause now, i have to seriously consider if i want to even continue this relationship. it is hard. he is not the type to cheat (really he isnt). but i am wondering if i stay in the relationship and refrain from sex, could i be driving him to cheat? it is a scary thought. i dont know if i want to go through it.
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smiley, in all honesty, if you have to consider all of that stuff and think about that for hours on end, it's so not worth it. Believe me, it's simply not worth it.
It's cool that he called you and wants to continue being with you, but it's so early to think about one thing and end up doing another months down the road.