JAM, I think you hit the nail on the head!
I *am* the hypothetical person you were talking about. I never dated in high school, I went with friends to "functions" in college, and now I'm out of school and still have't met anyone that I'd be interested in dating. Does that make me a freak? To some, maybe. But to whomever I'm supposed to wind up with, I don't think so.
I personally don't know if when I do meet that man if I'll wait until our wedding night or not....I'd like to, but sometimes things may move faster than I expect it to right now in my life. It'll be interesting to experience the ride when it does finally begin.