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Originally posted by adduncan
I was 32 when I was married and a virgin until my wedding night. It was THAT important to me to only be that intimate with my husband and no one else.
People choose to be promiscuous and everyone shrugs it off. But when others choose to be chaste they're "weird". Doesn't sound too fair to me.....
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I think there's a difference, though, between waiting to have full-on intercourse and not doing anything more than just holding hands, or waiting until you're 25 with someone you've dated for years versus waiting because you've never gone out with anybody.
We didn't technically "do it" until our wedding night, partly due to religious reasons, but in the seven years that we dated we sure got close a number of times! Had fun but avoided pregnancy and STDs. He'd just turned 25 and I was almost 24.
And yeah, the "wedding night" was a little different, but it was nice, because I knew no matter how good or bad it would be, it was with my husband who loved me, and we could work on it to make it better together, and learn all of those new tricks together (yeah, baby!). No worrying about whether he was better or worse than other guys I'd slept with-- because I hadn't slept with other guys and hadn't even done most of the fun stuff with other guys either. I generally have no regrets, after being married over five years.
And yeah, I know I'm weird anyway.
