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Originally posted by BobbyTheDon
My question for you is, what on earth do the three of you (my sister, my mom and you) mean when yo usay " when you know what you want first". I don't know even know how to love a girl. Everything so far has just been lust for me. Enlighten me please.
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Well, I personally only say this to my brother bc well he has this whole notion in his head that he needs to find a girl now. A lot of people around here, are well already married, and he sees this and thinks its the norm. I keep telling him that he should just enjoy things right now. So well the girl he has found.. well not to be mean.. he is just settling for. I think a lot of times he doubts himself. Everywhere we go girls go crazy for him, but he always gets all shy and embarrassed. I think this has a lot to do with it. He is a very quiet guy, but once he warms up to you, you cant get him to be quiet. Though I think this hurts him in meeting new girls.
What I mean personally by "knowing what you want" is just that I think he should date different people or just hang out with girls as friends. That way you can figure out what qualities you like and at the same time I think you really grow from different relationships.
ETA: I dont know if this really clarified things... as I am a little tired, I might be able to add more later.