(another non-Kappa joining in
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My sweetie is in a band and a lot of his friends are very eclectic, to say the least. I get along with them all very well and when they first found out I was in a sorority, they about fell over. I just love pulling peoples' chains like that.
(soapbox) I think the statements that the NPC and NIC issues against hazing are so tepid, that they do very little. I remember when that "Dying to Belong" movie came out - what NPC was so carefully worded that some people probably thought "this goes on all the time and they are just covering up." I also think we are too quick to let colleges tell us what to do, and to designate too many innocuous activities as hazing. (off soapbox)
Back in the 50's there used to be pressure TO go Greek, now it's reversed itself. I don't think there should be pressure one way or the other - just something you can choose if you want to.