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				Originally posted by James  
And for those of us with more experience . . are we obligated to share with our friends how much they are limiting themselves? Or how little they know, or realize that they know?
			
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 YES, tell us when we're wasting our time, oh wise ones! 

  My family does this to me all the time.  I'll date a guy, and then when we break up, someone will inevitably say, "Well, I didn't want to say anything, but I knew he was totally wrong for you!"  Well, 
why didn't you do me a favor and 
say so?  Even if we do get mad, at least you'll know you tried.
Glad to know I inspire you, James.