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Originally posted by sugar and spice
Oh yeah, I know how that is. Blaine will never know how instrumental he has been over the past few months in making sure that I will not end up hating the entire male gender.  And where would I be without the harem?
Talking about it helps a LOT -- especially to my friends who are familiar with the whole situation. I thought it would hurt too much to talk about it and I would end up wallowing, but it really helps so much in giving me perspective on the whole thing and getting all of the worries and stress out.
Thank you . . . I totally agree on the recycling the ex stuff. Previous breakups have taught me things like "Never play the breakup-back together-breakup-back together game" and "Don't ever allow yourself to do the rebound thing because you are bad at it and end up hurting feelings" -- now I just have new lessons to add to the list.
I haven't talked to him at all since Saturday and I think this will continue for at least a few more weeks if not longer. I agree completely that it is best to cut off all contact and even though it has been pretty difficult for me to do that until now I think I'll be able to handle it.
I am going to skip the valium because I'm already on another prescription anti-anxiety and I'd probably get addicted to the hard stuff.
EXACTLY. I just have to remember this.
Thank all of you guys who responded, and especially those who offered to talk, so much -- you have no idea how much it helps, especially to know other people have made it through/are going through the same thing. I have been doing really well so far and with any luck that trend will just continue. I hope any of you that are having similar problems are hangin' in there too. I'm always willing to talk if you need it . . .
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Holy shit, girl. We ARE the same person...