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Originally posted by JayBEE!!
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I.) Influencing Distraction. When occurances happen within the relationships, some people begin to schedule meetings and events where the other party as difficulty in attending.
J.) Dating Rules are adhered to. Rules can be created and because dating has happen in the past, or because that were thier first intentions in joing, you may not have anybody take them seriously, and you are left with circumstances beyond your control.
K.) Daters take the organization less seriously and more of a place to socialize.
L.) Pledges dating members can lead to hazing violations.
M.) The more your group appears as a dating service the more others will come just to date somebody, and not be serious about the fraternity. And when they fail to obtain their interest, they attempt to back out of their oath to the fraternity.
N.) Using the fraternity to hurt the individual that they broke up with.
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O.) Male to male and female to female relationship tensions affect chapters operations.
P.) Internal relationships are frown upon in the corporate world because of the decreased in productivity that relationships create.
Q.) Bylaws, rules and pledging, become less stringent on a companion than someone not in a relationship, which is not fair and not honest.