[skerbow]

Well, I went through a structured informal as well. After 3 parties, including a pref ceremony, i went home. I was a commuter to UNT, as most of the girls were, and Lived 25 minutes away. I remember hugging one of the girls ( A HUGE NO NO, but I initiated it, so she obliged) she told me not to worry about anything. I went home that night and straighted up my living room because I was sooooo nervous. Then I got a call! It was 10 and the girls were tired, but they wanted to make sure it was okay for one of them to drop by in an hour or so. They apologized for the time and hung up. Sure enough, at 11pm, what was to be my future Diamond sister knocked on my door. She handed me the white envelope, and waited to see my reaction. I was soooooo excited!!! I never dreamed sorority life was for me. But after 3 parties, I knew ADPI was home!! SHe hugged me, handed me a bid shirt, explained the process and said she would see me tomorrow night at our slumber party! It was one of the best nights of my life!!