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Originally posted by decadence
It really isn't possible for you to comment maturely and without namecalling is it (rhetorical)?
 Nobody said those in relationships who are sleeping around are not at fault or that they or others should look to blame the cheatee for that. The argument was BOTH they and those who without conscience give them the body to cheat with and facilitate their cheating and the destruction of relationships are at fault.
If people wish to commend or condone sleeping with people married to (or in a relationship with) someone else, a lot of people will find that "unfortunate" - some might not. Those doing it either do not know the difference between right and wrong period or have long since decided to ignore it. Some people just want to seek the truth and always defend it, to act with integrity and some don't.
I just think being unfaithful if you're in a relationship is not a positive thing and nor is being a homewrecker / contributor to destruction of a relationship.
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Wowza! This whole topic really hits home with you, doesn't it? I am starting to realize that this particular subject is intensely personal for you. I apologize for upsetting you. Please believe whatever you need to in order to deal with whatever has happened in your life that has made you so hyper-sensitive where this subject is concerned. I'm sure it wasn't totally her fault. Some mean cheatin' person came alone and contributed to the destruction of the relationship. Really.
Since you're hurting already, that's all I have to say about the subject.
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