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...I called you a sanctimonious turd [added: I think] you came off as one in your post. ....so that's settled.
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It really isn't possible for you to comment maturely and without namecalling is it (rhetorical)?
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I just don't understand why some folks are so adverse to the concept of married people taking it upon themselves to observe their wedding vows. I was taught to take responsibility for myself and my actions and not to blame others when I screw up.
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Nobody said those in relationships who are sleeping around are not at fault or that they or others should look to blame the cheatee for that. The argument was BOTH they and those who without conscience give them the body to cheat with and facilitate their cheating and the destruction of relationships are at fault.
If people wish to commend or condone sleeping with people married to (or in a relationship with) someone else, a lot of people will find that "unfortunate" - some might not. Those doing it either do not know the difference between right and wrong period or have long since decided to ignore it. Some people just want to seek the truth and always defend it, to act with integrity and some don't.
I just think being unfaithful if you're in a relationship is not a positive thing and nor is being a homewrecker / contributor to destruction of a relationship.