Well I actually went through a structured informal rush during spring semester so there was an open house where we could meet all sororities.. then we could choose which parties to attend on our own, but sororities had to hold bids until Friday... so I was nervous because it wasn't spelled out you will get your bid by coming here at this time.. you just knew anytime on or after Friday they could extend you a bid... didn't know if they would call.. find you... etc... so I'm like super nervous because there's two sororities I really would like to get a bid from... (it was possible to get more than 1 bid because it was informal) and I REALLY wasn't sure which one was on top at all so I was just hoping that at least one of them liked me. SOO Friday morning I wake up get to class and get out at aroudn 11:30 (bids are held until 12.... at 12 I go to the bookstore to pick up some stuff and when I come out there was some Phi Sigs standing in the quad...they called me over and handed me a red rose and a bid card
and invited me to go out with them later that night. On my way home I got a call from the other sorority that I wanted... they extended me a bid as well.... well... I didn't know what to do but I went home and took my 24 hours to decide... and I actually went to an event for sorority #2 that night since I didn't feel like I had hung out with them as much as Phi Sig.... then I talked with another girl who was rushing after that event who had also received bids to both sororities and we talk and deliberated together... and actually ended up going different places... and I believe we are both very proud members of our orgs... I'm actually quite positive I would've been very happy in the other chapter as well and have many friends in that chapter and love the girls... but Phi Sig is where I belong
