[KillarneyRose]

Originally posted by decadence
WHAT?!!?!!?
So it's desiring excessive ridiculous things of someone for them to not be an ACCESSORY to the destruction of a relationship, asking for them NOT be a catalyst or NOT precipitate the destruction/decay of a relationship.

A person cannot cheat with themself despite what some people - bizarrely blameless as far as they're concerned - in this thread seem to think.

"Gee KillarneyRose (& others) you sure are trustworthy and upstanding aren't you".

Quit being such a sanctimonious turd, decadence. Since you've expressed interest, I AM both trustworthy and upstanding. Furthermore, I don't need to rely on the scruples of other people to keep me out of trouble. I don't need them because I have my own.

That was a personal attack that was quite unwarranted, decadence. I haven't always agreed with what you write, but I expected better from you.