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Ditto. I think there are members of both genders who do this to people and it's annoying as anything. Just because my ex takes the kids to church for two hours on "my" Sunday, doesn't mean I want to see YOU during those two hours. I want to take a bubble bath, read a book, catch up on housework, without kid interruptions, NOT entertain. And, if I have a cold and don't feel like doing anything, I also don't want you at my house where I feel I have to entertain you, even if you offer to make me chicken soup. I am well enough to make it myself but prefer to be alone in my misery when I'm sick!
It's just the clingy dependent types who do this to people. It's so annoying to the independent types though. The last one wanted to go out on Friday AND Saturday night! One of those HAS to be my "lay around in my jammies reading or watching chick flicks" time. I'm busy, I need a little down time sometimes. If I wanted to be with someone 24/7, I'd have stayed married!
Dee
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