It depends on the fraternity here what will happen to a guy when he lavaliers, but I know that my ex's house would have all the guys in his pledge class shave him BALD and then tie him to a ladder in the front of his girlfriend's sorority house. I have a thing with shaved heads (I CAN'T STAND THEM!) so clearly it's a good thing he never lavaliered me b/c I would have probably broken up with him for the shaved head. (Just kidding...maybe
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I agree with whoever said that getting lavaliered is the kiss of death. It seems to be true at my school too!!!