I'm nothing like what James reported!!!! I'm the opposite.
My ex used to call and say what are you doing Saturday.....I'd say not a lot....and he'd assume he'd come over about 3pm and we'd hang out all day!!!!
My not a lot....is considered
This is a Jen day. Which might be me going to the mall for a couple hours, studying, watching some NCAA hoops, or just drinking coffee on my porch.
I DO NOT require lots of time from a bf. I require maybe one weekend night, a lunch during the week possibly, and a evening stopin/dinner/or whatever during the week. This is 3 events that can be as short as 1 hour.
Trust me, I know you boys have your "boys stuff" to do. And I have my "girls stuff" to do.
So to answer your question...... I do not know why some girls are like this. But I am not!