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Originally posted by cutiepatootie
I think were all grown up here and enough to say to a sister or a brother who put that invitation out "NO THANK YOU" and be done with it. Its a strictly volunteer activity and having a joint study with other GLOs is great. Be grown up enough to not come unglued at someone for asking you be polite and say no thank you .... dont condone one another for what you or he or she believe in. Just be polite and say no thank you end of sentence.
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Condoning means you accept their behavior so I'm really not entirely sure what you were getting at...chastise, maybe?
I think it's inappropriate to ask when you've already made it public to the chapter. Like I said earlier, if Holly Roller stood up at chapter and said "Some of us are having a Bible study at the Newman Center Wednesday at 9:30 and you're all welcome" I wouldn't be bothered. That wouldn't be any different than Rachel Republican reminding us that CReps meets Tuesdays at 6:30. However, if after the meeting Holly came to my room and asked me to come, I would then be offended.
Being grown up means that you respect the beliefs of others. That means you don't ask people to do something you know they aren't interested in. I would never ask one of my pro-life sisters to come to a VOXX meeting with me, I know she wouldn't want to go...