I can't even respond to this thread anymore because of the dime store, psycho-babble bitter-filled bullsh*t that is fueled on here.
And shoot, I'm not even in the NPHC.
The fact remains that stepping IS NOT the only activity that can bring different groups together. Flat out. I don't care what is "flamboyantly displayed"
as Rain Man put it. Maybe it up to NPHCers that when they received these request, to simply say "no, however let's do ______ instead".